Ways to Attract Men: The Law of Attraction

By Joshua Howard

There are many ways to attract men to you. However, few are as helpful as the law of attraction. So, in this article, we're going to discuss what the law of attraction is and how to use it to attract men.

So what is the law of attraction and why would you want to use it? Well, the law in a nutshell is the idea that like things are attracted to each other, and unlike things are repelled. Human beings really can only do three things--think, feel, and act. So, each of these is how we interact with the world. And according to the law, then, how we interact with the world in thought, feeling, and action is what we receive in the world. You'd want to use it in your life if you agree with this tenet because if so, then you agree that how you go about living your life is giving you the results you're getting.

And if you agree, you probably want to know all the ways to attract men that the law of attraction will offer you. Though, first, a caveat: most law of attraction practitioners think that the universe is aligning with your thoughts and feelings; however, I think it's the other way, you have to align your thoughts, feelings, and actions with the universe. For instance, with relationships, if you're constantly dating the wrong guy, it feels like you're just attracting the wrong men to you. The reason that this happens is because what you think and feel culminates as how you act. If you're like I used to be, then you constantly repel the right people through "hypnotic blindness": you just delete the possibility of them liking you or the possibility of them as anything other than a friend. And even when they're clearly hitting on you, you wonder if they're serious... Of course, there are other ways to block yourself.

So, how do you use the law of attraction? Well, first, you clarify what you want. Once you know this, you imagine being with them as if you were living it and note the blocks that arise (you know, all the voices and pictures and feelings that make you feel bad or at least that what you're imagining is impossible). And though I explained it in a few sentences, this process can take a really long time (took me about eight months). So, don't rush it. The point is to move yourself from the mind state that you have now to one where you not only believe you can have what you want, but you expect it and aren't going to let petty things like thoughts and feelings stop you. And that's real power--power that makes you wonder why you wanted to know any other ways to attract men than the law of attraction...

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Joshua Howard is life coach who specializes in law of attraction, NLP, and DHE.

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