By Terry Wildemann
The Law of Attraction (LOA) has been
around for ages. Every generation, new teachers come and deliver it's message
in whatever medium is appropriate for that time. In this last decade the movie
and book, "The Secret," opened to door to understanding this powerful
law. It provided lots of information that created awareness for the masses of
how to attract those things you want in your life, business and career.
One thing the movie and book could
have done better was to teach us how to work with LOA. Many people felt that if
you sat on the couch and envisioned what you wanted it would all come on a
silver platter. Well, it takes a bit more than that! Visualization is a
wonderful thing however, there are steps to be taken, language to shift,
vibrations to adjust and a whole lot more to manifesting. The key to
manifesting your desires is opposite of the couch potato approach - it's
inspired action. More about that in future posts.
Unbeknownst to me, LOA has played a
huge role in my life. The one thing I clearly learned is that you gain control
when you give up control. Let me share with you how I attracted my house.
When the Navy brought us to
Newport, RI area in the mid 90's we rented a house for 3 years. In our 3rd year
we decided to retire from the Navy and make this beautiful place our permanent
residence. Time to look for a house.
Having moved 12 times in 10 years
allowed me to live in and experience what I wanted in my permanent home. My
list was clear as day - and I said it over and over and over. All I focused on
was what I wanted. I envisioned it, felt it and saw myself living in it.
Here's how clear my list was for
the main items:
• 4 bedroom house with office and
one of the bedrooms had an in-suite bath extra bath for guests OR 5 bedroom
with one bedroom used as an office and another with in suite bath for guests.
• living and dining room on same side of house
• kitchen and den on same side of house - den had a step down into it with a berber carpet (love that look)
• deck
• landscaped property
• master bedroom had big bathroom and closet (I was tired of stuffing everything into a 2x3 closet!)
• a window seat somewhere in the house
• finished basement for the kids to play in
• garage doors were on the side of the house instead of the facing front
• back of the house faced south for all day sun
• house was in a nice neighborhood without a homeowners association in Middletown, RI
• living and dining room on same side of house
• kitchen and den on same side of house - den had a step down into it with a berber carpet (love that look)
• deck
• landscaped property
• master bedroom had big bathroom and closet (I was tired of stuffing everything into a 2x3 closet!)
• a window seat somewhere in the house
• finished basement for the kids to play in
• garage doors were on the side of the house instead of the facing front
• back of the house faced south for all day sun
• house was in a nice neighborhood without a homeowners association in Middletown, RI
Now for the little wish list:
• wooden swing set for the kids
• hammock between 2 trees
• shelving in the basement for storage
• extra frig in the basement for my hubby's libations
• fireplace
• hammock between 2 trees
• shelving in the basement for storage
• extra frig in the basement for my hubby's libations
• fireplace
My real estate agent, a military
wife herself, chuckled at my list. She rolled up her sleeves and away we went.
We looked at so many houses that came close but that feeling of "this is
my house" was not there. Drove my hubby crazy!!!
At the same time that we were house
hunting I was also writing a book and in the process of adopting our third
child. Yes, lunacy ruled in those days! The stress levels were over the top
because I was trying to control it all because I had no clue how to focus,
chill, relax and allow. We were on a deadline! The landlord wanted us to make a
decision on whether or not we were going to rent again. With anger and
frustration these sad words came out of my mouth to my husband, "Let's
just rent again for one year. I'm tired, exhausted and can't take
anymore!" He agreed though with a heavy heart. We wanted our own home.
Then magic happened because we gave
up control and allowed.
The next day there was a house in
the newspaper was not there before. (I knew them all!) The description met my
criteria and in a flash my agent was on the phone with me and I said "Make
the appointment to see this house!" The computer gave me the address and
as I rounded the corner onto the street where this house was I heard someone
shout the words "That's it!" in the car. It was so loud for a moment
I lost control of the car. It really freaked me out and to this day have no
clue where those words came from. Once I gained my composure, I looked at the
house in front of me. It was in the neighborhood we loved, fully landscaped,
private, and it was mine. How many times have we driven this neighborhood and
never seen this house?
A friend lived down the street and
she happened to be outside. After we greeted one another I asked her who lived
in the house at the end of the street. Her words shocked me - my dentist who I
was going to see in 2 days! Hmmm! Now that was interesting!
The first walk through could not
come fast enough. While getting dressing, it dawned on me that I was taking as
much care with my clothes and makeup as if I was going on a date with my hubby.
We were meeting our house for the first time and we walked in the door the pen
went crazy checking things off my list. The energy was magnetic!
Well, there were checks next to
EVERYTHING except the south facing back yard. Did I understand what had
happened? NO! Not until "The Secret" came out did it become obvious
that my clarity, belief, and vibrations had all aligned themselves to give me
the house I wanted.
It's been 12 years that we have
been in this great house. It's lessons are huge and it continues to teach me
something new everyday.
So, do I believe and work with the
Law of Attraction? Every single day. Become clear on what you want, visualize
it as if it's already yours and believe it will come to you. Now, get out of
the way!
Terry Wildemann, CEC, CPCC, CPBA
Speaker, Business Intuitive, Certified Coach, Workshops
Speaker, Business Intuitive, Certified Coach, Workshops
Heart Centered Success
Providing Business Building Wisdom for Heart Centered Professionals and Entrepreneurs
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Providing Business Building Wisdom for Heart Centered Professionals and Entrepreneurs
Email: HeartCenteredSuccess@gmail.com
Web: http://www.HeartCenteredSuccess.com
T: 401-849-5900
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It was so loud for a moment I lost control of the car. It really freaked me out and to this day have no clue where those words came from.using law of attraction
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