By Joshua Howard
"Where is my soulmate?"
is a question that's bugged people for as long as we've been thinking about
soulmates (which if you consider the very similar idea of "twin
souls", has been since ancient Greece). But while you're looking for your
soulmate, very often this question "where is my soulmate?" carries
with it the baggage of failure because you're looking and looking and looking,
but not finding. Things may start to seem hopeless... and this is when settling
happens. So, this article is designed to help you keep up your faith and show
you an interesting way to find your soulmate: the law of attraction.
So, first, what is the law of
attraction? The law of attraction in a nutshell is the idea that like things
attract one another; however, on a deeper level, it's the recognition that you
generally get what you think and feel (and if they're in conflict, you probably
find that you only get part of what you want).
In this context, many people can
relate to this because of the issues they have meeting new lovers. For
instance, many people feel lonely and then through their own will or that of a
friend, convince themselves to go out and try to meet people. But since they're
already in a negative state of mind, things are negatively framed for them.
They see a beautiful person across the room and then consider themselves going
over there. But since they're negatively framed, they just keep thinking of it
negatively... and of course, once they walk over and introduce themselves,
they're going to be ridiculed in the worst possible way. And so, without even
talking to a soul, someone can go out and be rejected hundreds of times just by
thinking about it.
But the law of attraction also
works in a less internal way. For instance, have you ever gone out as stated
above, then forced yourself to go talk to someone? Did you get good results
from it? If you're like me, the ennui itself helps block anyone from liking you
internally and externally because it makes you closed off.
And though I could give you endless
examples, the basic point is this: who you are is part of what you experience.
If you don't like what you experience, then you need to change something. Most
of the time, all the somethings you have to change, however, are just in your
beliefs and emotions because these are the major drivers of our experience
(just think how differently your life would be if you changed a few small
beliefs about yourself... ).
So, how does this relate to the
initial question, "where is my soulmate?" Well, very simply: if you
haven't yet got your beliefs and emotions or your "mental game" in
line with your desires, then you're standing in your way far more than the
world is. So, consider to yourself, what's stopping me from meeting my
soulmate? (A great way to do this is to imagine yourself actually being with
your soulmate, and noting the things that pop up: you're seeking something
impossible, you live in a fairy tale, no one's actually like that, no one like
that would like you, you're a lousy boyfriend, no one will ever love you like
that, you don't deserve to be loved... and on and on: I could write hundreds of
articles of just the negative things I've found my clients say to themselves.)
By the way, do you want to learn
more about using the law of attraction to attract your soul mate? If so, join
my special law of attraction newsletter here: Attracting Your Soul Mate
Joshua Howard is life coach who
specializes in law of attraction, NLP, and DHE.
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