By Joshua Howard
How to attract beautiful women is
something some of my clients (and friends) have been asking me to explain
lately. So, I thought I'd write an article to help anyone out there that wants
to attract beautiful women with the law of attraction. (Though, I don't teach
it exactly like everyone else because I think most, if not all, of the changes
arise just from the reactions that occur from changing yourself.)
So, what is the law of attraction?
It's the idea that like things attract each other. And though that seems an odd
place to learn how to attract beautiful women (because after all, most of the
people reading this article are not beautiful women--though, please feel free to
continue if you are!), it's actually the optimal place. This is because if you
want to attract beautiful women, you have to have something that they want. You
have to be attractive to them. Now, the question is how? Do you have to be just
like them? No. But you have to be enough like them to find rapport so that you
can find common ground (and also, people feel more comfortable around people
that are similar to them).
And honestly, most guys do this to
their detriment. They forget how similar they are to the women they're talking
to in their quest to be machismo or "who they really are". I mean,
think about it, how often do you look at a beautiful women and then consider
all the reasons she won't like you and why she'd reject you? If you're like
most men this is your problem: you focus so much on how she's perfect (and thus
better than you) or how she's so beautiful (way more attractive than you,
right?) or how "girls like that" only like guys that have traits xyz
that you don't have (cars, money, brains, the body, fame, etc.). And for what?
(Are you so much of a control freak you don't even want to give her the option
to accept or reject you? Notice to choose otherwise, is to reject yourself on
her behalf... )
So, how can you use the law of
attraction to attract beautiful women? Well, first, you need to do some
internal work and tighten up your internal game. The standard law of attraction
is amazing at this part.
To get started, clarify what you
want. In this case, to attract beautiful women. Or better yet, to have a life
overflowing with beautiful, available women. Now, consider the negative things
that already pop up just by clarifying what you want (e.g. you're not good
enough, no women will ever love you, those kind of women go for handsome rich
guys... ). Note these. Now, imagine yourself actually living a life overflowing
with beautiful available women that find you attractive and charming. Again,
note the blocks that arise. These and the previous list (they're probably about
the same) are the major hurdles for your inner game.
Start working on these asap and do
this process until you can see yourself attracting beautiful women everywhere
you go. Once you can do this and you've overcome the blocks (not just repress
them--that's the exact wrong thing to do: that's what's kept them there!), then
you can move into meeting women in real life. Though, it's not detrimental to
talk to women during this process itself because what you're doing is
repeatedly training your unconscious mind to react differently to beautiful
women so that when you do interact with them, you're able to get the results
you want rather than the results your old habits are giving you. In other
words, if you're working diligently on this, you should begin to see small
results that snowball on themselves until you have what you want.
By the way, do you want to learn
more about using the law of attraction to attract your soul mate? If so, join
my special law of attraction newsletter here: Attracting Your Soul Mate
Joshua Howard is life coach who
specializes in law of attraction, NLP, and DHE.
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